Abia Home Update…Exciting News!!!

Hello!!!

We have exciting news…we have just accepted three new children into the home!! They arrived yesterday and are adjusting quite well!

There is Mercy who is around 4.5, Ijay who is about 3, and Emmanuel who is 1. They were in desperate need of bathing and food, and with help from our other children and staff are learning to pace themselves and adjust quite well. They are young enough that they are not too upset about the transition, or rather more excited to be sleeping in a house with a family and having food, after coming off the street begging for food and sleeping outside.  It took some serious scrubbing and several buckets of water with Dettol soap to wash away the dirt and grime. We were lucky enough that we had one set of clothes in the house for each size of the new kids! Yay, God is good. So they each have a new set of clothes too.

 

New Vehicle

YAY!!
We finally have our first vehicle. We have waited forever for this day it seems. It has been so exciting and such a relief. Already so many more things are able to be done with access to a vehicle.
We acquired a Nissan Terrano off a British couple who needed to leave the country to their next post. It was previously a diplomatic vehicle and the couple helped process all the necessary paperwork to change it over to a ‘civilian’ vehicle. I traveled up to Abuja and with the support of one of our volunteer staff, Gideon, followed the process for changing ownership of the vehicle. We also did a few little things here and there like, getting our logo put on the door panels and window. Val and I, with a driver, drove the vehicle down from Abuja to the village. it was so exciting to reach the gate and honk the horn. The gates flew open with the kids and all the staff and neighbors over to see it!! There was lots of sitting in it and driving it around the compound. Later that eve Amos seat-belted all the kids and took them out for a drive to the junction. They came back with stories of everyone in towns amazement and excitement for our vehicle.

So already we have been able to take the children to the hospital and lab which is about a hour drive away. We have had them all checked and tested and I am happy to report we have three very healthy children!! We have been able to go to Umuahia to the bank and market, as well as many more little trips!

We say the biggest THANK YOU we can muster to those of you who helped contribute specifically toward the quick purchase of this vehicle!!

Accepting Children Process

Hello Everyone!
I apologize for the long delay in posting. Things have been very busy here with lots of traveling back and forth in the country, events and meetings, poor network, and lack of ability to be on the internet.

We are all doing very well! The children are great and growing. We as of a month ago we started drawing height measurements on the wall and it seems every few weeks they are passing them. They are also putting on weight… might have to start a regular DPA (Daily Physical Activity) session just to make sure they don’t put on too much. :)

There was information a while back that we were preparing for the arrival of four more children from two different cases. I want to update you that it is unlikely we will be receiving those children, do to different circumstances in both their cases. While our program is here to provide security, safety and opportunities for a future for children, we are NOT here to fight for custody of children from the situations they are in. We are working with different groups of people that are all leaders in some respect, to help us on behalf of receiving case information to work through. At this point in time, we do not and will not engage in action that actively fights cases to bring the children to us. We are here as an option for the children who meet our criteria and there must be a WILLING representative, be it a relative, community leader or government worker, who WILLINGLY releases and signs over the child to us.

I want to just let you all as followers of The Wanted Children Foundation know this information, so that you understand how our process works, and why it may seem to you that we have “few” children or not many children coming in all the time. We wait for Gods timing and pray and work very hard on each case and application that is brought before us, and there is a process to be followed to ensure the safety and security of the child in question, our current children in the home, and us as staff and a Foundation.
Take a moment to Google the story of ‘the boy and the starfish” to see how we view our work and our children. We are not basing our success on quantity but on quality; not how many we have and can get, but on how we can make a difference in the ones we have.

Nigeria Lagging in Child Education

Several years ago UNESCO, (United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organisation), set itself a target of getting every child in the world in school by 2015.

The organisation now admits that goal will not be reached, with 57 million children out of education in 2011.

Sub-Saharan Africa accounts for about 30 million children, of which Nigeria has the worst record, with more than 10 million children out of school in 2010.

Watch this video from Al Jazeera’s Ahmed Idris reporting from northern Nigeria, … but remember to click the “back arrow” and come back to our site!

Link:      Nigeria lagging in child education – Africa – Al Jazeera English.

What’s Really Happening in Nigeria

Heather Murdock

January 28, 2014

ABUJA — Violence has surged in northeastern Nigeria less than a week after new military leaders declared they would end a four-year-old insurgency by April.  Some analysts say the attacks signify that a fresh military approach alone will not end the fighting.

Last week, Nigeria’s new chief of defense staff, Air Marshal Alex Badeh, said the Boko Haram insurgency in northeastern Nigeria would be over by April, before the state of emergency in three states expires.  The war, he said, is “already won.”

Then, on Sunday and Monday, more than 70 people were killed in two brutal attacks.

Major attacks blamed on Nigeria’s Boko Haram

2009

  • July – Attacks prompt government crackdown in Bauchi and Maiduguri; 800 people killed

2010

  • December – Bombings in central Nigeria and church attacks in the northeast kill 86

2011

  • June – Attack on a bar in Maiduguri kills 25
  • August – Suicide bomber kills 23 at U.N. building in Abuja
  • November – Bombings in Damaturu and Potiskum kill 65
  • December – Christmas Day bombings across Nigeria kill 39

2012

  • January — Gun and bomb attacks in Kano kill up to 200
  • February – Maiduguri market attack kills 30
  • June – Suicide car bombings at three churches kill 21
  • July – Attacks in Plateau state kill dozens, including two politicians at a funeral for the victims

2013

  • February – French family kidnapped in Cameroon, held hostage for two months
  • April – Fighting with troops in Baga kills up to 200; residents say troops set deadly fires
  • May – Attacks in Bama kill more than 50
  • July – Gunmen kill 30 at a school in Yobe
  • August – Gunmen kill 44 at a mosque outside Maiduguri
  • September – Gunmen kill 40 students a dorm in Yobe
  • October – Attack Yobe state capital Damaturu, clash with military in Borno state

Haruna Musa Ahmed, a bystander on one street in Kaduna, a northern city that has been the scene of many Boko Haram attacks, says when the government threatens Boko Haram, the militant group fights harder.

“That is why they take that attack on the weekend.  To tell him that they cannot deliver so let him go and change to another strategy,” he said.

The recent attacks, on a market in Borno state and a Catholic church in Adamawa, have prompted renewed calls for peace talks.  Shehu Sani, the president of the Civil Rights Congress of Nigeria, says insurgents have adapted to military rule, making them difficult to defeat.

“They were able to survive it.  Now they have reorganized themselves and are launching attacks from different places.  So now we have to find another way of solving the problem,” Sani said.

Last year, Nigerian President Goodluck Jonathan created a “dialogue committee” to set up peace talks with Boko Haram, an Islamist militant group that has killed thousands of people in the past few years in attacks on churches, mosques, schools, market places, villages and on the government.

Sani says a lasting solution to the crisis must include development in the region, where the economy is in shambles and most people have barely enough food, shelter and health care to survive.

He adds that peace talks have not yet been successful.

“The dialogue committee made claims of meeting with the insurgents and the dialogue committee made claims of arriving at a ceasefire with the insurgents,which has been consistently dismissed by the insurgents,” Sani said.

Critics say any peace talks with Boko Haram are bound to fail because it is a fractured group without a clear leadership structure.  Even if one part of the group agrees to a ceasefire, they say, another part may fight on.

Boko Haram says it wants to impose its harsh version of Islamic law on Nigeria but observers say many of the fighters are unemployed young men with no other income.

Political consultant Fabian Ihekweme says the president is developing a new strategy to end the insurgency, which included replacing the entire military leadership earlier this month.

“He is coming up with a different security approach to tackle the menace.  And it is also good that he uses different men in doing that,” Ihekweme said.

But on the streets of Kaduna, some locals say it is not different men that are needed, but more men.

“The number of police we have are too small,” aid worker Idris Inuwa said. “The number of security we have are too small.  They are not up to the number we are supposed to have in this country.”

Human Rights Groups have criticized the Nigerian military, saying it has killed hundreds of people in operations against Boko Haram and arrested hundreds more without charges.

The Nigerian military denies these accusations, saying the Boko Haram war is constantly changing and while they work hard to adapt, no country in the world to date has been entirely successful at ending terrorism.

Ibrahima Yakubu contributed to this report from Kaduna

Dec 2013 – Paperwork: Expat Quotas and Visas

Well this has been an exhausting process for sure. After two months of paperwork, meetings, traveling back and forth between the village and capital…I am happy to announce that TWCFN has had a small number (out of the requested amount) of expat quota positions granted. Namely one position which is mine! So after months of tireless work, the first phase was accomplished this week. The second phase was taking those approved papers from Ministry of Interior, over to Immigration and having the new visas processed to allow stay in the country. So again, by the grace of God I am happy to announce, that in a matter of one day with massive support from our Immigration man, I have had my STR working visa approved! All of this removes one major stress of never knowing when I might have to leave. YAY!

Nov 2013 – Groundwork for new home

While spending time in Abuja working on our papers, I had some interesting meetings and conversations with some individuals regarding OVC’s in FCT. Some time ago TWCF was asked multiple times to move and open our children’s homes in FCT as there was a great need in the middle-belt and more northern regions. Due to the religious conflicts going on it was something that was a possibility at the time. Although we listened with sad hearts to the types of situations that children were facing. Throughout the years we have been continued to be asked and encouraged to re-visit the idea of opening a home in the FCT area so as to meet the high need of placements for OVC. We previously were aware that due to religious conflict, there were many children left without parents, as well as children that were still being killed in villages due to traditional believes and juju magic. In the last few weeks I have been re-informed that these issues are still very much present. As a matter of fact, some of my friends up here are shocked that the practices still occur, especially in FCT, which is the state area that houses the capital of the country. The fact that is there are villages on the outskirts of the capital city that still practice the killing of twins, facial scarring and genital mutilation, sacrifices, black magic, ect. Aside from that, there are still many children that somehow migrate more towards Abuja, having survived journeying from the north were religious battles and slaughtering are still occurring. As I heard a story from a friend’s friend who is a lawyer (who was looking into a case that led her to one of these villages), I was reminded that these are all the same things that were going on a few years ago. I decided that while I was waiting on paperwork, I would start looking into these matters. With Kayode’s help we started contacting someone people in government and eventually had a meeting with the Assistant Director of Child Welfare for FCT. This man is also the one in charge of orphanages, setting them up/monitoring them/closing them down. This man confirmed that the issues I mentioned are still very much present, and the numbers of children that they are dealing with on an ongoing basis are too many to keep up with. Aside from that it would seem that there are many orphanages and motherless babies homes in FCT that get shut down due to improper paperwork, wrong motives, ect. This leads to the few proper homes being filled to over capacity. While we were in this man’s office, four children were brought in by the police having been found on the street, three separate cases. He said the day before a baby was found near a garbage pile, and over the last week four other babies were found. I discussed with the man about the protocol and procedure for setting up and running an orphanage home in FCT, and shared with him our program and how we run. After reviewing our papers, he was very excited for what we do and hoped that we will consider opening a home in FCT. He said there would be no shortage of children to place. I asked “if we open a home tomorrow, how many children could we have”, to which he stated, “you better give us a number of how many you want because we will keep giving them to you, do you want 10, 20, 30, 60, how many?”
Hmmm, need I say more…

Nov 2013 – NOA

As I have been in the village often when there is need for paperwork in Abuja to get done and moved about, our staff Peter has been working tirelessly at making sure things get done. Also a close friend of ours, Kayode, has supported this work as well as helping when I am in Abuja. Kayode is currently planning an initiative with the National Orientation Agency (NOA) of Nigeria that will address Human Security and Healing of Memories in Nigeria and that will kick off next year during the centennial celebrations in the country. This initiative has the support of the President and is being reviewed by him and his staff personally. As Kayode has been a support to TWCF over the past many years (I have known him since we started our work here in Nigeria), I also support him in his work with NOA. I have been asked to help consult on the curriculum and initiative by Kayode and the Director of the NOA. It is something I am honoured to do. The more I hear about this initiative and work on it, the more I see how it ties into how we are raising our children in TWCF. There is so much work to be done on teaching and training people in regards to human security (rights and assurance to basic human needs, safety, shelter, food, employment, respect, ect) and healing from wrongdoings by others. Hopefully by sharing ideas and raising important questions, solutions can be found that will create change and make a difference in this country.
Eg. An example of how there is an effort for change yet a struggle to implement it: I attended a ceremony and unveiling of a new initiative in Nigeria called “Do The Right Thing: Avoid Dirt, Be Clean”. There were dignitaries, politicians, religious leaders and international country ambassadors present. The initiative was introducing garbage cans to be used to reduce waste in the environment and keep our environment clean. While the initiative is a good one and supported, it has not been fully thought out. Not every state will get these garbage cans and push the agenda, let alone every city/town/village in the states that do get them. Also, once the garbage cans are filled, there is no plan yet as to what to do with the garbage in them. So we continue to have mass amounts of waste and garbage cover the streets and pile up on the corners, making the environment smell, becoming breeding grounds for bacteria and disease, aside from looking awful.

Nov 2013 – Meetings

This month has been filled with meetings both in Abia State and in FCT. I have traveled twice in this month to Abuja to work on our Expat paperwork it is taking a long time to make progress, but we know everything is in God’s timing. So in the meanwhile there have been meetings in Abia State, in Umuahia as well as in the Isuikwuato LG villages.
*We have had ongoing support from our Abia SS Director and Assistant Director, we are so grateful for them as we would have been in a serious dilemma without their willingness to help. We have had several good discussions with the Perm Sec of Women’s Affairs for Abia State, and have her full support for running our home and the program we offer in regards to caring for OVC’s. We also met with the Perm Sec and Director of the Children’s Welfare Department, and have their cooperation and support in running our program as well. We have met with the heads of the main hospitals in Umuahia, specifically in the maternity and pediatric wards, sharing our information and availability to review situations that make come up through them.
We have made a concentrated effort to meet more of the Eze’s, Chiefs and big business men who are all leaders in our surrounding villages and community. It has been a pleasure to make their acquaintances and we pray and hope for their support and willingness to step forward and be a part of what we are doing as they have the resources to do so.
*During my time in Abuja, there have been multiple meetings with the Ministry of Interior, those who are holding our Expatriate Quota applications. Peter and I have held meetings to discuss what steps to take and what options to pursue.
We have touched base with our Director of SS as well as the Director of Internal Security of SS. They both are supporting us with our documentation.
I have met with several individuals who run different NGO’s in Nigeria, from HIV/Aids education, TB awareness, and educational support programs. It has been very informative to learn what other areas in the country are needing support and change, as well as to learn that there are others out there making an effort for change.